10/22/2026
AMY’S PCS PLAYBOOK
**DON’T SPEND YOUR WHOLE HOUSE-HUNTING TRIP LOOKING AT HOUSES.**
I know. That sounds completely backward.
You’ve got limited time.
A list of homes.
Appointments stacked back-to-back.
And the pressure of knowing you may need to make a decision before you leave.
So naturally, the instinct is:
**SEE. ALL. THE. HOUSES.**
But if you’re moving to an area you don’t know yet, I want you to leave some room in that schedule for something just as important:
**Go live there for a minute.**
Drive through the neighborhood when you’re *not* headed to a showing.
Find the grocery store.
Grab dinner nearby.
See where you’d get coffee.
Drive past the school, park, gym, daycare or whatever matters to your actual family.
Pay attention to what’s around you.
And ask yourself:
**Can I picture our regular Tuesday happening here?**
Because during a PCS, it’s really easy to choose a house based on bedrooms, bathrooms, square footage and how pretty the kitchen is.
But you’re not just choosing a house.
You’re choosing where your family is going to start building a life in a place that may still feel completely unfamiliar.
After decades of military moves, that’s something I think gets overlooked:
**The house matters.
But the life around the house matters too.**
So yes, let’s tour the homes.
Let’s see as many good possibilities as we reasonably can.
But somewhere between Showing #6 and Showing #7?
Go get lunch.
Drive around.
Look out the window.
And let yourself actually experience the place you’re considering calling home.
**A PCS house-hunting trip shouldn’t only answer, “Do I like this house?”**
It should also help answer:
**“Can I see us living here?”**
Amy Trahan
Associate Broker
Residential Property Manager
Sutton Tullio Realty LLC
(703) 785-7461