Lovinity

Hi! It’s me, Jessica 👋 | Creator of Lovinity
Candles, good smells & good laughs. Lovinity means Infinite Love. Thank you for your support on this great adventure!

Helping people feel a little more at home—in their space and in themselves.
💛 Wellness Begins with Light. The name manifested with the simple thought of bringing love and happiness to those who are in need of that extra comfort during trying and extraordinary times. To empower each other with positive affirmations, to me is key to a brighter future. After all, affirmations are what I turned to during my darkest hour to help me rise above the hardships of life and lessons that were learned. I believe that we must love ourselves before we can truly come from a place of love and understanding with others. It is my hope to be an example to my children and family of what Lovinity truly means to me. Every hand crafted piece is unique,made to order and made with love. You can message me here if interested in something I've made. If already "sold", don't fret because everything is made to order, which means everything is one of a kind and not an identical match to the previous, though close. I can also make personalized requests for you or a loved one - message me to see if possible. Gift ideas:
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10/12/2026

Well, that didn’t exactly go according to plan. 😂🌧️

Yesterday was supposed to be a BIG day for Lovinity. Months of preparation, a new booth, a banner I’d wanted for YEARS, and over 100 handmade candles. I was proud. Really proud.

Then Mother Nature showed up with some unresolved issues with small businesses. 😂 Canopies lifted, products fell, and rain poured.

I’m a single mom on one income. No big budget or team behind Lovinity. Just my two hands and a dream I’ve refused to put down.

So yesterday hurt. A lot. I cried the exhausted, overwhelmed kind of cry. After preparing until 3 a.m., I could barely think straight.

The people. My goodness, the people. ❤️

Emily was beside me through it all, working her tail off. I couldn’t be prouder. My mom and son visited too, thankfully leaving before the storm.

I’ve spent much of my life figuring things out on my own. And somewhere along the way, I’ve made some incredibly special adult friendships.

They have full lives of their own. Yet they make time. They show up because they want to.

They choose me.

I can’t explain how much that means.

Yesterday, when I couldn’t hold everything together, others helped hold things together for me. Friends, customers, vendors, and strangers held down my canopy, rescued products, and helped me pack. Even people who owed me nothing.

People showing up for people.

That’s why I started Lovinity: to bring a little laughter, kindness, comfort, and light into someone’s day. Yesterday, when I needed that light, people gave it right back to me.

The financial loss is real. So is my gratitude. To everyone who showed up, thank you.

I’ve been working so hard to build something meaningful, and somewhere along the way, I’ve built a life filled with people who genuinely care about me.

The love I felt yesterday? That part was bigger than the storm. 🧡

Wellness Begins with Light.

And sometimes that light comes from the people standing beside you. ☀️

10/06/2026

Yes! It is that time to get myself back out there more consistently now that the Summer heat may be vacating San Diego.

I have a few events lined up for October. Ladies at the Lake will be a good one AND my first big event since rebranding. I’ll also be vending at a new market here in Lakeside. And, I’ll be at my original stomping grounds with Backroads.

Working on lining up the rest of 2026, as it’s my FIRST full holiday season pouring and selling my candles and other goodies. I’m excited to still be going and trying.

Thanks for being here!

10/05/2026

See you there!

10/01/2026

We’re getting this party started. 🕯️

100+ candles.
11 flavors.
An unreasonable amount of wicks. 😂

I’m officially in prep-and-pour mode getting Lovinity stocked up for my next couple of shows, and this is what the beginning of 100+ little jars of happiness looks like.

And yes, I call the scents flavors. No, you cannot eat the candles. You know, just in case that needs to be said. 😂

Now comes the fun part… pouring all these babies and watching the shelves fill back up.

09/18/2026

Checked out the grand opening of the thelakesidefarmersmarket tonight! Said hi to friends (not all pictured), those I’ve come to know through other events and met Amber, who helped organize all of this for our awesome community in Lakeside. A really cool vibe and really cool things on the horizon for this one.

Should I inquire and add my name to the vendor list? This would be a weekday event. 🤔

09/16/2026

I will be at Backroads Certified Farmers Market this Saturday, 9/19 with my candles, foam soap and sprays. Pumped to be getting back out there after the Summer heat kept me away from all of you!

See you out in Lakeside/Flynn Springs this Saturday from 8:30-12!

08/31/2026

It’s time! I’ll be seeing you in September! The heat kept me and the candles away from events through the Summer, so I’m excited to be able to get back out there again.

My home Farmers Market Backroads Certified Farmers Market, where it first started is on the dock.
Plus, the Arts and Crafts Fair at the La Mesa First United Methodist Church. I was invited back and couldn’t be more thrilled to join everyone once more. It was a great success last time AND is walking distance from downtown La Mesa.

Looking to fill the last few months of the year with as many events as I can. I’ll let you know as they’re booked.

08/03/2026

It’s OFFICIAL! I will be rocking Lovinity at the Fall Market during the Ladies at the Lake in October! What great news to kick off the week. 🎉

07/30/2026

While I see other candle makers about to roll out their fall scents, I am not… yet.

Citronella is in its final testing stage and will be available soon! Because, finding the time to test burn 4 hours at a time during summer break with the kids, has its challenges.

07/10/2026

So… apparently I ghost my own business page now. 😂

Honestly, every time I disappear, I fully intend on posting “tomorrow.”

Then somehow it’s two months later.

Anyway… hi. I’m Jessica.

If you’re new here, welcome! If you’ve been around for a while, thanks for hanging around and keeping a seat open for me.

I’m the person behind the Lovinity curtain. I make the candles, the room sprays, the foam soap, pack the orders, answer the messages… basically, if it has a Lovinity label on it, I’ve absolutely touched it.

When I’m not doing that, I work at a school with amazing little humans. I’m a mom to two radical gremlins. I love live music, cold b**r and w**e, making people laugh, singing entirely too loud, dancing in grocery store aisles when a good song comes on (which is always), inserting movie quotes into conversation’s, and making weird faces at kids until they laugh.

I started Lovinity because I wanted to make things that make people smile.

Life can get heavy. If I can make someone laugh at a candle label, make their house smell amazing, or just give them five minutes to slow down… that’s a pretty good day to me.

Truth is, I’ve spent way too much time overthinking social media had to be polished. I’m in my “finally letting myself be seen” era, so unless I’m doing that, posting feels… eek. And, to be totally honest, I’m kind of afraid to be myself in front of all of you, so that’s taking some time for me to adjust too.

I’d rather you get to know me than see a perfectly curated business page though.

So from here on out, you’re getting all of it. That’s the plan I’m telling myself now, anyway.

The behind-the-scenes, market days, new products, random stories, things that make me laugh, things that don’t go as planned, and probably the occasional disappearing act… because I’m still working on that part. 😂

Thanks for being here.

I’m really glad you are!

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La Mesa, CA
92071

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https://linktr.ee/LovinityOfficial

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