10/13/2026
Looking back on the past 5 years and some of my pain points as a new retiree, this is what I wish i would have known sooner.
1. First of all, I’ve always been a planner but in retirement I thought I should give up my weekly planning. ❌ Wrong! I am still the same person, I just don’t have to work anymore. And I like to plan. It took me a year to figure it out! I am much happier when I create a plan for the week ahead.
2. Weight-lifting as we age is the key to a healthy body. It makes me feel amazing and gives me both energy and strength. I wish I would have started sooner! I have a lot of catching up to do. 💪
3. Friendships and real connections take time to develop and according to the research are the key to lifelong happiness. Get out there and meet people (even if you’re an introvert, like me). And be intentional about creating connections. 😊
4. Give your spouse grace! Retirement is a huge change for both of you and the two of you are likely to be in different places regarding your wants and needs at least some of the time. Be sure to allow room for negotiation and growing pains as the two of you maneuver this life change together ♥️♥️
5. Give this part of life (potentially 30 years or so) as much value as it deserves. This isn’t a time to become stagnant. You can enjoy slow mornings and a less stressful pace BUT find that thing that truly challenges you and keeps you energized in retirement. It will make waking up each day exciting 😁
Cheers to retired life!!! 🥳
X Penny
